"Yes, I love you very much, as I have never loved another man, and that is precisely why I am leaving, because, if I stayed, the dream would become reality, the desire to possess, to want your life to be mine... in short, all the things that transform love into slavery.

It's best left like this - a dream."

Quoted from Eleven minutes - Paulo Coelho

I am still in search for an ideal relationship and I agree love shouldn't be transformed to slavery. Don't try to change man. Love him for who he is.